The Shadow Lane Party

Posted 7/27/04
Now, on to past actual experiences.

As I may have stated, I do have experience in the BDSM field. This is a description of my first experience.

I learned of a BDSM party that was being hosted by a BDSM publisher that was based in the LA area. The publisher was www.shadowlane.com, who still hosts them. They hold a couple a year. I went to the Halloween 1994 party, and that was my “coming out” party. I say that because that was my first public contact where I was open about my interest, and primarily because the people I was talking to were also interested. Let me say this, it was a great relief to find others that liked the same subject. The first night that I was there, a general reception was held in the lobby of the hotel. I remember asking and being asked about how each of us discovered our interest in BDSM, what our actual interests were, ect.

I recall that being a Friday, and some organized activities were held, like a lotto spanking, where everyone threw their name into a hat as, one hat for spankers, one for spankees. I remember spanking an older lady 10 times. It was my first time, and I told her, she didn’t care. I recall loving the feeling of a woman over my lap, WANTING a spanking!! Damn, if this world can be fun at times!! I savored each smack! She had wanted moderate, and I was told that I did a perfect job, even being a first timer. Well, I had experience, I had spanked myself, so I could gage the severity somewhat. And I knew the “sweet” spot on a butt too. That was sheer pleasure for me, and I know she enjoyed it too.

One of the scenes I especially remember that night was when a gentleman was just wailing on a beautiful blond. She was barely giving a reaction, and when he was done, she stood up, SMILING! WOW! I immediately noticed that she had a significant other there, so I considered her unavailable, except to spank. But how I envied her escort. Such a beautiful woman, whom by the way was English, with a sexy British accent, Blond, and into spanking! As I later discovered, she was a switch, and ended up being the life of the party. I never had the opportunity to engage her, but I watch in awe! In a follow up publication, Shadow lane had a photo of her being spanked, and I held onto that photo for years afterward, just imagining what could be.

The second day was a Saturday, and I took the opportunity to visit a local BDSM dungeon called Club Chateau. You can tour this facility on line, and learn more about it at www.thechateau.com. I took a cab ride to there, and was extremely excited about my first total experience in BDSM. At the time, I really did not know whether I was Dominant or Submissive, but felt that I was both. They assigned me a Switch named “Rose” to tour the facility. While there I remember hearing a girl yell/scream, and that just got me going!

This Rose then sat with me to interview me, and to find what I was looking for. I remember her as being sexy, and frankly, I would not have minded knowing her on a personal level, but then that is what you can expect at a “Brothel”. Now they are supposedly legally licensed as a Brothel, so the girls are able to go nude in session. So I was interested in exploring the BDSM world with her. So she charged my credit card, and we went into one of the dungeon rooms.

She started to take off her skirt and underwear, then prodded me to do the same, since I was a little apprehensive. She got across my lap, and OHHHH! The sight! Such a beautiful round bottom, skin so white, and ready for me to spank at my pleasure. So, as she instructed, I started in on her lightly. We had conversation as I went along, and every once in a while, I would give her a hard slap just to get a reaction.

Then we switched, and she started on me. What pleasure, laying across a beautiful woman’s lap, ready for a spanking. She started in on me, but for me, it was like playing, my pain tolerance was way higher, and I said I was bored. So, she had me stand up, and she got a small flogger. Yea, it had a bit of bit to it, but it really was not much. Then she brought in another Dominant for a few minutes, and they double teamed me. Now THAT got a reaction out of me. Especially when Rose was called out for a minute or two, and the Dominant was trying to get more out of me. So she concentrated on the area between my butt cheeks, and WOW, a few of those, and she had my attention!!

Then Rose came back, and she put me into a bondage mechanism that held my arms high and wide, and my ankles wide. I was helpless. She came in front of me. She admired my erect status, and for a moment I thought she might do something with it. But no, she didn’t. She proceeded with a flogger on my butt, and really started in on me. I was howling, but damn if I would use that “safe” word. It wasn’t long, and she let me down, and we finished the session with me spanking her again, and rubbing that fine ass of hers. We finished up, and then I had to wait for a cab back to my Hotel, so I could get ready for the Halloween party that night. While waiting, they got in a new flogger, and Rose unwrapped it excitedly, and had one of the men waiting give her a couple of swats. She took them giggling and with glee!

I forgot to mention that because of her and I meeting, she learned of the party, and later attended, making sure I noticed her. She apparently made contact with the proprier of Shadow lane, as she told me in conversation that night that she had discussed doing a video with them. And she followed through on that, as I saw her later as “Juliet Severe”. While we were talking, I felt a certain vibe with her, and I often wonder if she intended to pursue a relationship. But, it was not to have been. But I often wonder, had I pursued it, if I could have eventually dated her. I did send a note to Shadow Lane a few years ago inquiring about her, but they must have lost contact with her, by saying the last they heard, she was residing in London, but it had been a while. Oh well…

That night was a lot of organized, and unorganized activity. While I did not participate, I did watch several good spankings. I watched one woman, that I was familiar with from Nu-west get a hard erotic spanking until she orgasmed. She was exceptionally satisfied, and it took a long time for her to recover from it.

Then back to the Blond I spoke of Earlier. In one of the party rooms, she had her skirt raised, panties down, and was bent over for the cane! And a guy was giving her so pretty good strokes too. She was having some strong reactions, but seemed to be enjoying it too. There were a few welts left by that too. I am convinced that she went on to enjoy a lifestyle of strong harsh spankings, floggings, and cannings.

Well, that ends a long one. Neeros