Monday, April 09, 2012

On line personals

I have come to the conclusion that these on line dating and hook up sites are probably bogus. I started to subscribe to a few of them to see what would happen, and so far lots of teasing, but no actual meets. My guess is that the sites hire people to hook you in to pay the site money, and you're probably not emailing the person that they purport to be. I'd be interested in hearing if anyone actually got lucky though.

Went to a prostitute a few weeks ago. It was an experience that I prefer not to repeat. Just did not enjoy it.

Coming up...sharing the BDSM adventures of others.

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Friday, March 30, 2012

Maittresse Renee


OK, so it has been a few years since I last posted. Only because....well because! So I'm starting it up "again"!

A little catch up. Since I last posted, I not only turned 40, but now I am a few years past that! And I realized what a mid-life crisis is. It is that time in your life when you truely realize that your are mortal, that death is an inevitable end to life, and that you have now surpassed what is likely the first half of your life. I mean I now understand that most likely I will be dead at around 80, give or take a few years. Sure I could live to 100, even 110, as doubtful as that is. But I could also die today in some accident, have a massive heart attack or stroke and die, or be diagnosed with some illness or disease and be dead in a few months! Who knows when life will end, you just realize that it WILL end at some point. And as such, you realize that you don't want to die without fully experiencing all that life has to offer! So, I have started to develop my bucket list. As I discover things, I will post them here. But this post is more about catching up than about my bucket list and daily experiences. So on I go!

Last July I discovered more of the local BDSM scene in that just a short 10 minutes from my home (actually about 3 miles) I discovered a local dominant had established herself in a dungeon of her own making. It is in a two story home. Her name is Maittress Renee.

The day I discovered her, I wrote to her, and surprise surprise, within hours I was meeting her. And even more surprising, we did a "session" in which she put me on her "spanking horse" naked and paddled my ass with a variety of paddles, including a metal one with holes in it! Since then I have visited her another time in December, but have not since due to lack of time and resources. I hope to again soon!

I also have gotten more into the twitter world, and as a result have discovered a couple of events locally that center on the scene. That leads me to my number one item on my bucket list....become more involved in the local BDSM scene! Short of divorcing my wife, I don't know how successful that will be, as she is a vanilla and really would prefer to forget this part of my life. Well, I've gotten to long already, so time to sign off for now. Coming up, a recent visit to a prostitute, and musings on the scene.

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Monday, August 30, 2010

A dream of sex

Well, yesterday I had a dream that I was having sex with a former high school classmate. It had been a while since I had sex, so I suppose my mind was telling me something. I work nights, and awoke around noon with a hard one. My wife laid down with me for a moment, and we started to talk. I mentioned my dream. A little later, we were fucking. But the first time is always a quickie. 20 min later she was ready for round two, and those are always the best since I really have to work for it. By the time I was done I was all cramped up and out of breath. In order for me to get off though, I always have to imagine a woman at a whipping post being whipped. In this case, I imagined a scene described in another blog written by a woman. In it, she is on a whipping post in public, naked, strung up so only her toes touch the platform. My imagination of her being brutally whipped while tied naked to the whipping post put me over the edge. If only the wife knew....

Friday, August 06, 2010

An admission

I have to admit, I have not had the time for this blog like I wanted. I'll try to pick it up soon again.

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

A recent strappng session

Well, it has been a while since I posted last, and only because there was not much to post. I recently posted a add in SpankingCentral.com to see if I could get any male players, and low and behold, I have several bites. In fact, last Thursday, I met with a straight male. Initially I thought it would be a meet and greet, but it quickly turned into a strapping session. We met at a warehouse, and it was the perfect location. I only saw the front offices, but he had set up a whipping table. Initially, I thought we would give to each other. But he wanted to receive first. It was agreed upon prior to the meet that it would be a judicial scene, and that the accused was coming in for alternative discipline. We gave each other latitude to decide the crime and punishment. When I met him, I followed him to the location; he let me in, and showed me to the room. He immediately indicated that he wanted to go first, with no real discussion, and left me to familiarize myself to the room. He had purchased and prepared two thick leather straps, one essentially being a four inch thick one. I decided to add one of my own lighter ones, and gave him the choice of which strap I used, thinking that was an out for him. We had decided prior that there would be no “safe” word, so I wanted to give him every ability to back out I could. In the end, he chose the biggest heaviest strap, bared his ass, and I layed into it heavily. I know from the first to the last stroke, he felt each one. I would yell out the count, wait a few seconds, then SMACK! I layed it on with a follow through swing. I watched his reactions. After 10, I knew that I couldn’t do the same thing without extensive marking. So I copped out, reluctantly. I really wanted to take a few. So I chose the lightest strap, and he gave me three. In reality, I could have taken 50 of those had I been tied down. The three he gave me were really light stingers, and not much more. So on I go, hoping for the experience to happen. Well, my heart is not into writing tonight. So details on others will have to wait until later.

Neeros

Monday, November 26, 2007

The whipping of Abigail White

Oh what view this would have been!!:


Two hundred years ago, the Cheshire Bank in Keene, New Hampshire printed Ten Dollar bank notes with the date January 12, 1805. The Brattleboro Reporter newspaper for March 8, 1806 describes the counterfeit bills that were made of these - the Ten Dollar bills were "well executed, and known only by a critical examination with the true bills." Some Two Dollar bills of this Bank, altered to Ten."

Stephen Trask, the leader of the Keene counterfeiting gang, escaped from the Newfane, Vermont gaol on the night of July 12, 1809. The gaoler, Zatter Butterfield, described Trask as bout forty-five.

He is about six feet high, light hair, cut short, light blue eyes, down cast and Gallows-looking - He wore away dark coloured velvet Pantaloons, a brown Surtout, and old hat, and what was peculiar, he had on a Seal skin waistcoat, the hair being principally worn off - And every honest man who sees him, will take him up for a villain, "his very looks convict him of crimes the most enormous."

In this Trask gang was Abigail White. When Zatter Butterfield reported her "Strayed or Stolen" from the Newfane gaol the night of September 30, 1808, he described Abigail as "about six feet high, very straight, and very pleasing in her conversations and manners, light complexion, she was very genteely dressed, the last time she was seen in the custody of the gaoler, when she travels she commonly wears laced boots. . . . "

Abigail White is famed as the last woman whipped in Vermont, on August 10, 1808 at five o'clock in the afternoon - then being imprisoned for the fifty-one days before her escape. Judge Royall Tyler had sentenced her to thirty-nine stripes with the cat o' nine tails, the fine and court costs.

A great crowd witnessed Abigail stripped to the waist, her bare arms bound to the post with its crossbar near the top. The High Sheriff of Windham County, Mark Richards, and seven deputies set to, some delivering the lashes with force.

Deputy Lemuel Whitney gave two lashes as lightly as possible, but let his third lash fall as a gentle reminder that women were, by law, entitled to "their thirds" - his reference to the widow's share in one-third of her husband's estate.

According to eyewitness Charles K. Field, who was four years old then, "Near the close of the whipping her back became raw, and she suffered excessive pain and she shrieked and screamed terribly in her agony."

In C. Horace Hubbard and Justus Dartt's 1895 History of Springfield, Vermont, is recorded a key reminiscence by Fanny Richards, the then twenty-one year old daughter of Sheriff Mark Richards. For the whipping, "Mr. Richards gave orders to his daughter Fanny and a daughter of Mr. Whitney to prepare the scourge. This they did in the cause of humanity by making the tails of slack-twisted woolen yarn, and the scourge was applied according to law, but left no marks. It was probably the last sentence under this law before its repeal."

There were two women named Abigail White in the Trask family circle. Abigail (first cousin to Stephen Trask) born August 29, 1762 to Noah White and Rebecca Trask. Abigail Anthony (aunt to the above Abigail) who married Nathan Trask in 1793. Stephen Trask was born in 1764. He married Judith "Juda" Hunt. In 1830 Trask entered that Mint from which all counterfeits derive.


THE PAST--WHIPPING WOMEN.--We copy the following from the Brattleboro Reporter of August 13th, 1808. Was such an event as is here recorded to take place now, it would awaken great indignation. But times 'aint as they use to was:'

"Mr Fessenden,

During the session of the Supreme Court holden at Newfane, which has this day closed, Abigail White, a woman about forty years of age, late from the province of Lower Canada, was convicted of passing counterfeit bank bills; and was sentenced by the Court 'to be whipped thirty-nine stripes, to be fined, and to pay the costs of prosecution, and stand committed until sentence be performed.'--This day 5 o'clock afternoon, she received the corporeal part of her sentence at the public whipping post in this town, and she now stands committed until the other part be complied with.

Newfane, August 10th, 1808."

Source: Vermont Phoenix, December 27, 1844.


HON. LEMUEL WHITNEY,

One of the leading men of his time in this town, was by trade a silversmith. He was born in Petersham, Mass., in 1764, and came to Vermont in 1785. The first years of his residence in this State were passed at Newfane, where he held the office of sheriff.

It was the duty of that officer to execute the law which made it discretionary with the Judge of the County Court how many lashes should be applied to the naked skin of the convicted transgressor of Vermont laws. ... Once during his term of office, as he informed us, he was ordered by the court to whip a woman, at the public whipping post, for passing counterfeit money. The shoulders and upper part of her person was completely stripped of clothing, that the naked skin might be exposed to the lash. Under this severe trial of his gallantry the lashes, especially two out of three, fell so lightly, she could be hardly conscious of receiving any, but the third lash, that being a gentle reminder that women were, by law, entitled to "their thirds."


Source: Henry Burnham, Brattleboro, pages 68-69.


Samuel W. Porter received his education at Newfane, Brattleboro and Chester Academies, studied law with Hon. William C. Bradley of Westminster, Vt., and first opened an office in Putney, but removed to Springfield, December, 1815, where he spent the rest of his life. ... He married Fanny Richards, daughter of Hon. Mark Richards of Westminster, Vt., which resulted in a happy union for half a century. Mrs. Porter, before her marriage, lived in Westminster, and an incident which occurred in [missing word or words] was often related by her. ... A woman was sentenced to be publicly whipped at Newfane with the cat-o-nine-tails,--thirty-seven lashes applied upon the bare back. The execution of this sentence devolved upon the high sheriff, Mark Richards, and his deputy, Lemuel Whitney. Mr. Richards gave orders to his daughter Fanny and a daughter of Mr. Whitney to prepare the scourge. This they did in the cause of humanity by making the tails of slack-twisted woolen yarn, and the scourge was applied according to law, but left no marks. It was probably the last sentence under this law before its repeal.


Source: C. Horace Hubbard and Justus Dartt,
History of the Town of Springfield, Vermont,
with a Genealogical Record, 1752-1895

(Boston: Geo. H. Walker & Co., 1895), page 415.


The Whipping Post.

At an early day corporal punishments were inflicted at every term of the Court on Newfane Hill. The writer of this sketch, when a mere boy, well remembers witnessing the whipping of old Mother White, of Wardsboro, in August, 1807. She was convicted of passing counterfeit money, and sentenced to receive thirty-nine lashes upon her bare back. A great crowd of men and women collected to witness the whipping. The Post was in the form of a cross, with a transverse strip near the top, to which her bare arms were bound, and her body was stripped to the waist. The High Sheriff applied a certain number of stripes, and the balance were allotted to his Deputies, some seven in number, and some of them applied the blows with great vigor. Near the close of the whipping her back became raw, and she suffered excessive pain and she shrieked and screamed terribly in her agony. The writer of this sketch, although very young, remembers the scene distinctly. The Meeting House and Academy stood a few rods above the site of the Whipping Post, and their windows were filled with women, gazing intently upon the revolting scene. This was probably the last woman publicly whipped in Vermont, for the Legislature abolished the Whipping Post that fall and provided for the building of a State Prison at Windsor.


Source: Charles Kellogg Field, Esq., Centennial Proceedings
and Other Historical Facts and Incidents
Relating to Newfane, the County Seat
of Windham County, Vermont, 1774-1874

(Brattleboro: D. Leonard, Steam Job Printer, 1877), pages 32-33.

Thursday, March 22, 2007

My world in BDSM 3/22/2007

Welcome to this weeks update of my world. I have been carousing the net for the latest and greatest, and found a couple of real gems. But before I get to that, a few announcements. www.spankingCentral.com, a male-male site, has added another video to the collection: “Jake: "Scenes from the Punishment Room"”. Now this producer has an interesting take on Corporal Punishment. He reserves it solely for the ass, and no other target. I prefer the back, but a good ass whipping is always fodder for my eyes. The instrument is a three fingered leather tawse, which looks mean as hell. The subject, Jake, is shackled to a cross nude. Well, you take a look and see for yourself. It is not really my thing, but I would recommend it for the intensity. The producer does like his art, and does a pretty good job of editing the entire video. He does a pretty good judicial scene, and this is just that. If you don't mind seeing a man get it, then I recomend this one.

I mentioned a gem before. This week I subscribed to www.Spankingserver.com. Now this is a great site from the producers of www.Pain4Fem.com. The concept is simple, produce a video for each day of the week that is 2-5 minutes in length. In that time, they bring in the girl to be punished, undress her, shackle or restrain her, do the deed, then release her. They cut off when she is exiting. Short, sweet, to the point, with little or no dialogue (They don’t speak English anyway). The scenarios differ each day, from whipping her vagina, to over the knee spanking, to genuine flogging at a whipping post.

A few years ago, I had discovered a site run by a guy from up in Michigan. His thing was to collect corporal punishment scenes from movies. He amassed quite a collection, and started to sell it. Well, the last time I checked, that site is no longer running. But I am guessing that www.pain4fem.com bought his collection, digitized it, repackaged it, and is selling it now at http://www.punishmovies1.com.

Why do I mention this? Because some time ago, I mentioned that I was looking for a French title so that I could see a whipping scene, but no luck. Just by chance, this site has it, and it is one of the best depictions of a flogging I have ever seen in a movie. Short description, a woman is on a platform in the town square with an apparent whipping post. The town has gathered to watch, and she is being talked to in French by one of three executioners, all of whom are obviously capable of carrying out their duty. While I can’t understand French, it seems that she has something to do with the death of a man. The dialogue is drawn out a bit, and she seems not so much scared, but rather unhappy and reserved to her fate. Cut away, and she is bound to the whipping post with her wrists high above her in a manor more proper so that she can not twist and turn. Her back is bare, but there is no frontal shot, so no nudity. She is being brutally flogged, and they show several face shots. The sound is done well, with no music in the background to disturb the feel. All you hear is the grunt of the executioner, the whip, and her sounds as she reacts. No screams, just gritting her teeth, and some grunting and crying. The punisher is obviously experienced in maximizing pain. The scene cuts away as another executioner is pulling a branding iron out of a fire kettle. Now this is a scene that I would love to duplicate for real. It is my classic fantasy. If you visit the site, go to movie 3, clip 3.

I just subscribed to www.punishmentphoto.com, Gallery 4. I am very disappointed. I expected more for $19.95. It includes 8 clips, 4 of them from the FBW series. I thought, GREAT, I always wanted to see that series. But all you get is a series of short clips, pretty much sample size, or shorter. I would guess that you get a grand total of maybe 4 minutes of stuff, though I didn’t time it. For $20, I expect a bit more. I am going to try one more time, but everything before has been a disappointment with their stuff. Ed, if you read this, take this as constructive criticism. First, video quality. The fact that I can’t download the video to my computer, I understand why, but it makes for jumpy video. Often, I am only seeing a series of photo’s. Second, length. Your Mini-movies are pretty good, but those clips are not a good value for the money. Make them longer. Concider a rate of $1 per minute. So either give 20 minutes for $20, or charge less. I won’t recommend this to others. The Mini-movies, a decent deal, but still too much. For $20, I should be able to download it. I suggest that you invest in technology that restricts transferring the file beyond the initial download, and let us all download it.

Everyday Lady

This photo will be the first of a series of photo's which I am calling my "Everyday Lady" addition. Each week, I will include a photo that I have taken of a lady that I have run across in my dailly life that impressed me in some way. For the most part, she will be that one lady that you see that you just want to fuck, or in my case, spank and fuck.

The first nomonee is a stunner, though the photo does not do her justice. I won't say when or where I saw this lady, but let me say, she was just stunning in looks. She was wearing a formal dress that more than complimented her. I couldn't get a good frontal shot without being obvious, and the one that I did get was too blurred to make out very well. But trust me when I say, she looks better than almost any woman you could ever meet. This woman was definitly Oooo-la-la. I know you can't tell from this photo, but her ass was perfect. It was well defined, round, perfectly sized. I just wanted to lift that skirt of hers up to get a better look. She was a blue eyed blond, and had that perfect long stright hair that just flowed.


Jessica Alba. An instant sex goddess. I found a photo manipulation group this last week, and saw this photo. It obviously is a spanking photo, with Jessica's head pasted into the photo, but isn't that a fantasy almost come true?
Next is an old Nu-west photo that I found years ago. This one is a classic in that it is pretty judicial in nature, and very exposing of the woman. It is obvious, though probably staged, that the woman was brought in, skirt hiked, panty hose pulled down, and she was affixed to the horse. The points that I love about it are that the ass is bare, the hose are still on, legs are spread, thereby exposing those areas that women hold dear and thereby giving more humilation, the ankles are shackled, and lastly, she is still wearing the heals.


Well, that is it. Keep looking through the net for fun BDSM stuff, and pass it along to me.