Monday, April 04, 2005
Friday, April 01, 2005
Spanking Central
OK, I was just cruising the net, and searching for new and interesting
stuff. What I found was exhilarating! I ran across www.spankingcentral.com.
I am going to have to pay for membership in this one folks. Now before you
click and such, be forewarned, this is a male-male site. While I in no
pretense am gay, this site depicts some of my fantasies that I would love to
live out!!
I just cruised the sites photos, and I found that they must have done a
Singapore canning scene re-enactment. There is a guy on an A-Frame type
contraption where his wrists are bound and arms pulled tight above his head,
and his ankles are locked into some stocks at the bottom. He is stretched
out on this thing so that he can not possibly move! I love it!! And then
they put this protective padding that kind of looks like a picture frame
around his butt, and what do you think the picture is of? Right! His BUTT!!
And the photo set also shows where some other guy is canning this
subject....DAMN!! I want to be the guy on that A-Frame!! Of coarse, I would
prefer that some great looking chick is doing the canning, but what the
hell! I would even love to do the canning!! Any person willing to get on
that A-Frame is looking for a beating, and I would love to give it!! Weather
receiving or giving, I don't care, weather male or female, I don't care
(well I do have my preferences!), lets get busy!!
Then I perused some more gallery photos and found another set of shots where
another guy is on some piece of furniture, where the furniture is high
enough that his feet are about a foot off the ground, and he is bent at the
waist with ankles chained so as he can not kick, and his upper body is
stretched out because his wrists are pulled pretty tight. Then some guy
looks like he is giving some pretty good licks with, what would best be
described as a institutional style strap that has only one purpose, to strap
an ass!! DAMN!!! AGAIN!! Can I join in the fun?
Over the years, I have found that the male-male stuff tends to be less tip
toe, and more gung hoe in the spanking scene. I recall when the net was
still a rather new item (I was probably one of the first in the 90's
cruising it, when 2400 was still fast, and graphics, let alone photo's, were
rare) that I found a site www.metropolitanslave.com. Then for a few years,
my computer got outdated, and the net was not a reality for me, and I could
not afford to upgrade. When I finally rejoined the WWW, that website was not
what it was early on. Some guy that went by the name of boot boy was like a
webmaster or something. I just recall a photo where some guy that was nude
except for crew socks and leather work boots was bend over a saw horse and
his ankles and wrists were tied to it, and he was getting beaten, all this
while another guy was apparently jacking off.
My background with the gay lifestyle is rather different. I grew up in rural
America in the 80's where being gay was not an option. And frankly, I never
thought about the lifestyle, and did not understand it well, and was very
uncomfortable around it when confronted with it. I always suspected that one
of my high school friends was gay, but I think I was wrong, as he has never
come out of the closet. As for me, no closet to come out of, I am not gay.
But I first got exposed to the lifestyle when I left home and started
working at a discount store, where some guy was open about it, and several
others weren't so open. Then I started working for another company, and we
only had so many duties to do in an eight hour shift. If we hurried, we
could get a long lunch break. So we did, but this was on midnights, so the
only thing to do was go to the cafeteria and visit with the help there. I
remember this one guy was as gay as girls are straight!!
I eventually opened up to the gay group, but the idea of gay sex will always
be a turn off. As Sam Kinison said, how can one man look at another mans
Hairy fucking ASS?!?! Well, I say that in the context of the idea of kissing
another man, or buttfucking one, or getting buttfucked, or having a man suck
me off, or anything like that is just an absolute turnoff. If some chick
wants to get me out of the mood for sex, just start talking about a gay guy
joining in.
My first experience with gay spanking happened when I responded to a woman
in a spanking personals once. We exchanged a couple of letters, and she was
older by about 20 years. We agreed to meet. I drove to where she told me to,
and when I got out of the car, this....well masculine looking girl asked if
I was looking for her. It was then that I realized that I had been had!! It
was a guy in drag who knew he deceived me. I was pissed!!! Well, I drove him
around, thinking about my next move. I was there to give this "chick" a
spanking, and it turns out to be a guy. But I was bent on giving a good
licking to a butt that day, and here was a willing participant. So I drove
for a few minutes and made uncomfortable small talk, thinking all the while
about weather to kick this guy out of the car, kick his ass, or go through
with the original intent.
I decided that I made the effort, so I might as well beat an ass, the guy
even brought a leather strap that "she" wanted me to use on "her" bare ass.
It was a Saturday morning, and the Hotels were not yet accepting check ins,
so we drove around a bit more, as we needed a Hotel. I don't recall why we
didn't go to his place. I pulled over then, and made straight talk to the
guy. I told him that I knew he was in drag, that I was pissed that he
deceived me, but I was open minded enough to go through with the original
intent of the meeting. But my condition was that he did not reveal that he
was a man, and to carry on the Charade, and that if I saw a penis, that
would end it. He admitted his discression, and agreed to continue, and that
he always intended on hiding his maleness. He even told me that he wanted me
to be extra harsh on him for the charade and deception. I told him, don't
worry, the fact that he was not a woman would take away any sense of
playfulness I had, and that I now looked at this as a punisher, prisoner
type scenario. I said I would still respect his limits though, but the
harshness was going to be bolder.
We got into a Hotel room, and being the first time for me, I made sure the
room was out of the way, off in a far off wing. I explained that I was
having a rendezvous, and that we wanted a room where no others were around.
We got into the room, and I turned on the TV. Over the coarse of the next
three hours, I had the "gal" over my knee a few times, and got my hand sore,
then I used my belt while he laid on the bed, and I used the strap on him
too. To his credit, I tried to make him have me stop, and he took it. We
parted company, and I never spoke or saw the guy again. But to an extent, I
had satisfied a urge to whip an ass, and whip it hard. While now, I would
have to break out the cane, it was an interesting experience. And it opened
my mind up to possibilities.
Years later, I found Big Daddy on the web. This is a big burly guy that is
gay in San Francisco. He invites guys to come to his place for a spanking,
so I took him up on the offer. I flew out there on a whim. I thought that it
was going to be just the two of us, and that I was going to get a great
whipping on the ass. Then I got there, and while in flight, two other guys
showed up for a spanking, and then I showed up. Well, I discovered that Big
Daddy really is gay, and he didn't have the deep burly voice I was hoping
for, then when he meets me in the hall of his building, he doesn't simply
try to shake my hand, he kind of rubs my back. Discomfort level high now. I
ended up coping out on the spanking stuff myself, but he invited me to watch
as he worked on the butts of the other two. He knew I was straight, and he
said that he had worked with many straights before. I suppose so, but the
image I had of him, and the fantasy of some burly guy whipping my ass went
right out the window when I met him. I flew back with a Vanilla ass, and
disappointment.
Now days, I am more realistic about the idea of gay men and the spanking
world. But a comment on M-M spanking. I have found that men are more
aggressive in their ideas of what corporal punishment should be like. Men
prefer the idea of being bound more heavily, being stretched out further. In
general, more incapacitation, more judicial in nature. They like to see the
subject, or be the subject, that is put into a position where their butt is
the very obvious target, and being bound heavily so that no matter how hard
the punishment, there is not a DAMN thing that the person getting beaten can
do about it, not even wiggle a little. They are there for the duration. That
is why I am open to the idea of M-M corporal punishment. Well, time to go.
Neeros
PS, just viewed one of the Spanking Central Clips, WOW!! They showed a close up of one of the cane strokes as it was delivered....WHOA!!!!!! It left an instand white mark!!! YOUCH!!!!